How does one succeed in life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Is marijuana bad for you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do Republicans want to ban books and decide what your kids can and can’t read?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What I need from you?

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

That's it for today.

I am skinny, I have been doing 100 pushups a day for more than a month and am seeing very few results, everything is so unfair, I workout more than anyone I know and am still skinny, why cant I build muscle?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why do so many 18 to 29-year-old men struggle in dating?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Ask yourself:

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.